When replying for a household or couple, follow the names listed on the invitation and any accompanying instructions. Being invited does not automatically include additional relatives, children, or a guest. If two people are invited but only one can attend, identify both clearly and indicate who accepts and who declines. Return the card by the requested deadline, using the enclosed envelope when one is provided. For an online RSVP, enter the requested names and complete the attendance and meal fields before submitting your response.
Couples who want to simplify their response cards can replace the traditional “M” with “Name(s)” or “Names of Invited Guests.” These alternatives accommodate different titles and make the instructions easier to understand. Traditional wording remains an option, too, especially when paired with clear attendance choices and a response deadline. Whatever the design, the useful details are the same: a readable name, an unambiguous acceptance or decline, and any requested information that helps the couple prepare for their guests.